--
Hayley B. James is a big fan of this cover |
In all that time, I have been writing adult-oriented
fiction. I like sex, I like to write it
and in all the stories I’ve written, only one has prompted someone to tell me
that I had too much sex in there. And I
have gotten some really nasty reviews over my fanfiction. I write BDSM – quite a bit – and I’m not
ashamed of that. Because many of my
stories are BDSM-centric, they also involve a lot of sex.
So, imagine my surprise when the first negative comments to
come back on Choices was talking
about there being too much sex. Tacked
on to that involved comments about it being the same sex over and over and I have to say that I was really surprised. I had gone to great lengths to keep the sex
scenes fresh.
My content editor and I went over them many times, did a lot of cutting, moving and refining and
both of us were quite happy with what came out.
But that whole thing led me to start wondering – how do you keep sex fresh when writing
erotica? I mean, let’s be real, erotica comes with certain expectations, like a
lot of sex. Most also expect a decent
variety of it.
I was talking to a friend of mine tonight and he agreed,
when you’re talking about vanilla sex, there are only so many ways to write
it. Location, position, things like
that, but unless one of the guys is holding a Kama Sutra, it’s not going to be all that varied.
As a writer of BDSM, that helps. When you bring kink into the picture, things
open up. I can’t begin to imagine that
Choices would have been nearly as erotic if it wasn’t BDSM-focused. But
BDSM gives a lot of options, and I enjoyed using many of them. Bondage, denial, pain, Domination and
submission – many of these things allowed me to keep the sex scenes fresh and
different.
It’s not easy,
even when there are relatively few sex scenes in a book, to make them different. As I pointed out above, there are really only
so many ways to HAVE vanilla sex, much less write it. Choices will not be, by far, my last novel. I have some 20 different stories running
around in my head. Some of those will be
erotica, some of them won’t. A few of
them may not even have sex in them (I
know, this is shocking to me, too, believe me!).
But I think that, perhaps because it’s not easy, I look
forward to the challenge, I look for ways to make it different, both in and out
of kink. Here’s to hoping I manage it.
* * *
Thank you again to Hayley for hosting me! I am very
appreciative of the opportunity. Do be
sure to leave a comment for a chance to win a bag of swag! I’ll be drawing the name on Monday, April 15th,
along with the winner of the signed paperback copy of Choices!
Thank you for stopping by and reading!
* * *
Born and raised a gypsy in the late eleventh century, Teman values freedom over everything. He and his best friend, Jasim, are thieves for hire—until one night they're caught and their precious freedom is revoked. Given the choice between the dungeons or palace pleasure slavery, they become slaves, but Teman vows to escape someday.
Bathasar doesn’t want the throne. He supports his brother
instead, which suits their sadistic father, Mukesh. When Teman, the handsome
slave Bathasar has secretly been watching, saves his life, Bathasar requests a
slave for the first time. Before long, Bathasar and Teman fall in love. But all
is not well. One day Mukesh brutalizes Teman before the court, angering the
empress of a neighboring nation. To appease her, he then offers her Jasim as a
gift, and Teman decides to stay with Bathasar for now—despite the abuse he may
suffer.
The peace doesn’t last. Mukesh plans to invade Jasim's new
country, and Bathasar must find a way to stop the destruction. But if he
succeeds, he'll ascend to the throne and have the power to grant Teman his
liberty. Then Teman will surely leave him. What other choice could a gypsy
make?
I think whatever you write, be it with sex or without, will be enjoyable either way. Kudos though to sticking to your guns and writing your novels and your characters YOUR way. That's what makes them real.
ReplyDeleteAF Henley <3
I do have to commend you for being able to keep sex fresh both within one novel that does have a delicious quantity of sex, and between all your different scenes (you've written hundreds!). It's got to be hard... but you've done a damn good job in my opinion. The BDSM does help, so many cool things to make the men do... *grins wickedly*
ReplyDeleteI did love the book, Grace :) The cover is also absolutely stunning. I don't know if your giveaway is international, but if it is, I'd like to take part. My birthday is April 15th, so who knows, I might get lucky ^.^
ReplyDeleteErica
eripike at gmail dot com